Thanks for sharing this, Devon. I think I am just leaving the intense identification stage. It's hard getting the balance right between accepting limitations of disability and taking responsibility for behaviour. I sometimes blame things in my autism but what is really going on is that I feel pressure to do too many things and then can't manage. Some executive functioning stuff there for sure. And little time to fix it so the mistakes keep coming as I struggle to try and fit everything in.
I love your writing, thanks x